Can't give you much advice about housing, as that part of town has developed hugely since I worked there (fifteen years ago). Bridgeville had major flooding a few years back, so if it's a ground floor apartment, keep that in mind FWIW.
Have you been down this way much? I can give you advice on getting around town, but you'd need to know the major roads, or be able to ID them on the map (/Mapquest/whatever), to make use of the advice.
One piece of good news is that the x of 22 and 60 is also the location of a huge complex of malls, shopping centers, and all that stuff, so however far your residence is from work, that's also the furthest you'll have to go to get just about anything. Of course, all those stores come with the requisite amount of traffic to deal with.
I play at my friends' houses. Lots of info I can give you about gaming-related stuff, if it will affect your housing decision in any meaningful way (if not, I'll just give it to you later) -- but most of it will be geographic, i.e. make more sense with a map.
I should warn you that I follow a bizarre schedule and am about to go to bed, so don't expect my replies to follow "normal" commo patterns.