I'll take "things my wife has never said to me" for $300 Alex.
I had to laugh when I read his comment as my mind went to the same place as yours (scary). I was fortunate enough to hear such a comment said in earnest, once upon a time. Almost made a year and a half of jealousy, crying, demands for attention, cheating and bickering worth it. Made this forum look like a picnic, really.
Best advice for life - pass on the redheads.
To those who have posted their comments on the Handbook, thanks for your support and encouragement. I may as well put forth some Designer's Notes here now that the dust has settled a little bit. I can't say I'm 100% pleased with the final product. I can't remember if it was George Lucas who said it, but probably everyone who has ever been involved in a creative endeavor has either said or felt it at some point - he said about his movies that he never finished them, simply abandoned them.
I'm pleased there have been no negative comments yet in open forum; at worst, there could have been claims I was "beta testing" the book, which was certainly not the intent. The only major concern I have is the typos that, despite the number of passes made over the text, still managed to creep in. (Those proofreaders I mention in the acknowledgments were not given access to the book proper and responsibility for its condition is mine alone). The good news is that they don't alter the meaning of the commentary, though one table has "<" and ">" reversed, which hopefully should be obvious through context.
Other glitches are more minor; there is a software bug that altered the left/right justification of the page numbers in two or three spots. The changes were invisible to me during the formatting process. I've reported the bug to the software people; the work-around is labour-intensive but this will be corrected in future printings. The advantage of print-on-demand is that the book can be changed relatively easy. I will not do any major alterations out of respect for those whose faith caused them to order early, so any changes to the book will be cosmetic in nature only.
I'm happy with the stuff that is out of my hands; paper and print quality, for example, though as pointed out earlier in the thread, there may be concerns about the longevity of the book - frankly, I was unaware of these issues, and thanks to MLaPanzer for pointing out the distinction between conventional printing and POD. Turnaround times also seem to be acceptable so far as does packaging during shipping. I don't like the cover; their hardcovers are nice, but for some reason, the softcover versions of SDH I got had an oily film to them that shows fingerprints very easily. Out of my hands, unfortunately. The black colour highlights this also.
I've received no real feedback on content, particularly the force composition chapter. One omission I noticed just this morning is the Battlefield Integrity figures; I should have at least mentioned where they go as they are a standard part of the composition of a scenario card.
Otherwise, the utility of the book will not be for me to say. I'll look forward to any detailed, constructive critique. The book is dense, and indeed big, so would expect it to take a while for people to find the time to sit down with it. But as the name implies, as a "handbook" it is intended more a reference to be picked up when sitting down and working out a scenario idea. Plutarch wrote that the mind is not a vessel to be filled, but a fire to be lighted. The handbook was written with that object in place - the end goal being not a reader's brain full of memorized yet fairly useless statistics about how many squads a Russian infantry battalion had in the winter of 1942-43, but to arm him and inspire him to research and create. If that happens as a result, then we can all benefit from it.