I've deleted most of your post to make replying more manageable. I appreciate your taking the time to give your views. As I see it, though, the above snippet captures the issue in a nutshell. Per the above, you believe that there are ASL rules that are "flawed" and you have decided to "fix" them in a situation in which you have the power to do so and to make other players play by those "fixed" rules rather than by the official rules. You have not applied them on a rule-by-rule and scenario-by-scenario basis (for example, in scenario X, you should apply rule 2 and rule 3, because experience has shown not to do so breaks the scenario), but across the board, to every scenario.
The thing is, every ASLer has some rules they don't like. In fact, some ASLers have so many rules they don't like that they practically rewrite the whole system with house rules, playing some alt-version of ASL with their buddy that few regular ASLers would even recognize. Of course, what I like and don't like is not necessarily what you like and don't like, and might be different still from what that guy over there likes and doesn't like. Everybody has their own rules opinions. Changing the rules to suit you is fine; you bought the game, you can do what you want with it.
The problem, as I see it, is when you step past your own play universe and start wanting to impose your views on others, to force others play by your house rules because you personally think they are better. Again, it is one thing to add rules to a specific scenario with known issues in order to ensure that it is balanced for players, but quite another to just impose multiple rules on everybody for every scenario.
I've been to around 45 tournaments (including the small one I ran once at Origins). I went to all of them in order to play ASL by the ASL rules, not by house rules.
I'd have no objection to a tournament info sheet that said, "For better enjoyment, we suggest--if you and your opponent agree--the use of the following rules when playing your scenario:" In that instance, it is optional rather than imposed.