I find that a more extreme position to take than the guy who lost his temper.
Some of my best friends in the game, and indeed I myself, have the capacity to lose their temper. It just happens sometimes, game or no. Then ya move on to the next scenario.
We talk, some of us in the UK, of the "Staniforth Sweep". Simon's one of the most pleasant chaps on the UK scene. I was playing him during the early stages of his 'career'. The scenario was Le Herisson. And I was giving him an uncomfortable time. He'd been trying to self-rally this half squad in a key building for, like, three turns. So he decides it's such an important situation that he'll move a leader over from the right flank, to the left, taking two turns to do so.
Leader arrives. Next rally phase.....of course you don't need me to tell you what happens....
So.....with the arm of a butcher......SWEEEEEPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP.
Counters everywhere. Bright red face. Then, I, "do I take it that this is your formal surrender?"
We laughed for hours and everyone in his circle of ASL buddies still talk of it.
Why would I never want to play this guy again. We have great laughs. Even if we both play hard, and occasionally struggle with our own emotions